TMI Thursday: My Slut Phase

Lilu has announced that TMI Thursday is ending! Major sadness I’ve only just gotten into doing it and now it’s over. I may still continue to do it on my own, but I haven’t decided yet.

Alas, I figure it is better to go out with a bang, so here we go.

In my freshman year of college, I had a bit of a slutty phase. I was 17, a virgin, and finally away from a super overprotective mother. While I remained a virgin throughout my slut phase, there were a lot of other things that I tried.

I used to not like it when guys went down on me. Gasp! I know, I know, but in my defense, the two guys that tried were horrible at it and it just made me feel weird. It wasn’t until DD went down on me in 2008 that I finally liked it (and have since come to adore him doing it).

Anyway, back to my slutty phase.

Since I didn’t like guys going down on me, or fingering me really, and wanted to stay a virgin, I basically was a make-out/head giving slut. Yeah, classy I know.

I probably made out and gave head to some 20 something men during that first semester of college (I’m guessing here. I wrote it down somewhere once but have since forgotten where I put it).  One time (or times rather) stands out in my mind.

I met Josh through mutual friends my first week of class. He was EE’s roommate (EE is the guy I lost my virginity to and dated for 4 years) and even though I liked EE more than him, Josh paid more (obvious) attention to me.

One night, we are all in EE and Josh’s room playing Truth or Dare. I picked truth and Josh asked me, “how many guys have you slept with?”

I responded, “None, I am a virgin.”

None of them believed me (apparently I had a reputation based on all the head giving I had done) and thus began a very long conversation about how I was still a virgin and the fact that I had never had an orgasm.

During the conversation, Josh boasts, “Well I know I can give you an orgasm just using my fingers.”

This was waaaay to bold of an assertion for him to make without me putting him to the test. So right there, with EE and two other guys in the room, Josh and I climbed into his bed, got under the covers and started hooking up.

After about 10 minutes, EE and the other guys left and Josh and I continued to hook up. For the next month or so, Josh and I spend many hours in his bed- him fingering me and me giving him head (For the record he did NOT give me an orgasm in the entire month that we hooked up; he did come close though). The crappy part was that EE was in the room much of the time “sleeping”.

To this day, I am still surprised that EE later asked me out and we dated for four years. Hooking up with his roommate while he was in the room wasn’t exactly the best first impression. Luckily, my slutty phase ended with the end of my first semester and shortly after we got back from winter break, EE and I started dating, which kept me out of trouble for the next 4 years. I am forever grateful that I never got an STD and that I was able to wait and loose my virginity to someone who really loved and cared for me. 

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Related posts:

1. TMI Thursday: He Pushed my Head Down
2. TMI Thursday: The Time I Crapped My Pants