I’ve decided to start participating in a new Thursday Meme called TMI Thursdays. I’ve seen it on many of the blogs I love and it originates from Lilu’s blog, Live it, Love it. You can read all of her wonderful TMI Thursdays post by clicking here.
So here it goes, my first TMI Thursday (which I would have never been able to write on my old blog).
I like sex. Actually that’s an understatement. But I’m not a sex addict or anything a la Tiger Woods. That’s just creepy. Ew!
But yeah, I love me a roll in the hay. I’ve pretty much been a sexual person my whole life and I can’t remember an age or time when I didn’t feel the urge. Yeah I am talking elementary school age here people, granted, I really didn’t know what those urges were at 6.
Surprisingly, eventhough I heart sex and am pretty much perpetually horny (Thank goodness someone invented the Rabbit. Best. Thing. Ever!), I’ve only done the full deed with two guys in my 24 years, my college boyfriend EE and DD.
EE was horrible in bed, but I didn’t know any better so I put up with it for 4 years. We both lost our virginities to each other at 18 and sex for him was supposed to be like porn videos he watched. As in I should be ready and rearing to go ASAP. “Foreplay” consisted of a few close mouthed kisses and then I was naked. He’d slap on a condom while I slapped on some lube to combat the icy dryness, and then he’d make me get on top. He was usually done in about 5 minutes. The end. That was my sex life for FOUR YEARS!
I know, I know.
Then, DD and I became more than friends in July of 2008 and sex became a lot more interesting and fun. For about three months, all DD and I did was “foreplay”. Before DD, I would never let guys go down on me because I thought I didn’t like it. Little did I know how much I would come to love it, to need it. DD helped me to unleash a sexual side of me that had laid dormant for 22 years. And it was (and still is) awesome!
Now I am not going to pretend to be innocent. I’ve done a lot of things with quite a few boys that weren’t full on sex but were sexual. Let’s keep it PG-13 and just say that I really enjoy giving fellatio. Oddly enough, EE and DD haven’t been the type of guys that can finish from it (And yes I am good at it. Trust me, I’ve been told… a lot).
So yeah, I like sex. A lot. But oddly enough I am pretty conservative when it comes to who I’ll do it with. I don’t plan on ever having sex with someone I am not in a relationship with and truly, truly care about. Like I really have to see a future with someone to give it up. I used to imagine that I’d marry EE and we’d be the only people either of us had ever slept with and it would be all romantic and such, but clearly that dream has long come and gone.
So for now, I have a pretty active and incredible sex life with DD, but if I ever don’t, I’ll always have my trusty Rabbit in my nightstand drawer until a guy who deserves my sexual appetite comes along.
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Okay, Miss Cammy, I am urber jealous you were able to attend this WordPress thingy! I think it’s incredible, and glad you had fun (in spite of my jealousy).
And that posted to the wrong post.
Keep your TMI posts coming! And, there’s no right or wrong in terms of your rules with regard to sex. If it feels right to you (in every sense of the word), then it’s right! xoxo
i am glad that you are able to be so honest. our society shuns women talking about sex, and i think that is so wrong. anyway. i am a little concerned about you. in this post, you said this:
“I don’t plan on ever having sex with someone I am not in a relationship with and truly, truly care about. Like I really have to see a future with someone to give it up.”
but, in your post about your ‘new’ relationship with DD, you said that you both had decided to just see where this takes you. if you are really serious about not having sex with someone unless you see a future with them, you have already decided where the future is going to take you, and i am afraid that you are setting yourself up for another disappointment. i’m not trying to sound preachy or mom-like, i just know all too well how hard it is to let yourself fall into this trap where you are more committed than the man in the relationship. if i’ve got it all wrong, then forget i said this, but if you need to talk, i’d be happy to share my experiences.
I completely appreciate the concerns and I think you bring up really valid points, but I think things are different for me because of the history of me and DD. I know right now we aren’t in a serious relationship, but we were. I dunno, I guess in my mind it is okay because we used to be in a relationship and I know he really cares about me. I have definitely not made up my mind about what the future holds for me and DD and I don’t think he has either. We are just seeing where things take us, but I think that works for us right now. Thanks so much for your words of wisdom!
Ok. Now I get why you had to change your blog.
I LOVE it.
1) I like sex too
2) The sex between the ex and I was also lacking. It was good sometimes, but again, we had no clue what we were doing…for four years!
3) Before Blog Boy, I had NO IDEA what I was missing concerning boys going down on me…and let me just say–holy shit i can never go back!
4) Rabbit…single girl’s best friend!
The End
I have really enjoyed reading your blog over the year….I love it even more now that you have the freedom to say what you choose and not censor yourself. Your honesty is great!
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